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Nelson and Crystal McDaniel have been married for 23 years and face the challenge of being estranged from their daughter Rachel after a strained conversation that Crystal had with her in September of 2023. This event has propelled them on a spiritual journey of walking closer to God, leaning on their faith in Jesus, and using therapeutic tools to heal and grow. Despite the challenges they face, Nelson and Crystal remain committed to their family and their faith.


Coping with Estrangement: Healing from Unrecognized Grief
I never imagined I would find myself here—mourning the living. Estrangement is a grief unlike any other, a silent ache that the world...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 13 min read
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Understanding Adult Child Estrangement: Seeing Their Perspective Through Research And Insight.
Learn why it happens and how to navigate it with empathy.
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 312 min read
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I Received Some Good News...(From A Friend)
Over the weekend, I received some good news from a very close friend. He and his wife were also going through an estrangement with their...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 304 min read
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Today Is A Special Day
30 years ago, today, I gave birth to my twin daughters. All of my pregnancies were very difficult. My first child, my son, died. He...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 263 min read
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More Than Survive
For so long, Nelson and I lived in survival mode. We did not nurture ourselves at all. We were just trying to keep our heads above...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 245 min read
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This Week Is A Tough Week
This week Is rough. There were several things that have happened that were overwhelming. I have several panic attacks, and a seizure. ...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 204 min read
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Good Things Still Happen
This past weekend, I took students to the NATS Mid-Atlantic Region Student Auditions. It was a great event. I had one student to win...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 103 min read
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Memories and Doubts
Nelson and I have healed a lot since this whole estrangement began with our adult daughter. We have begun to laugh again, and have...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 44 min read
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This Too Shall Pass, Nothing is Permanent
I am glad that everything we go through in life is temporal. Nothing lasts, except for our faith in God and His word. No matter what I...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 274 min read
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And There is MORE!!
It has been quite a week. Last weekend, I had a student involved with the NC National Association of Teachers of Singing Student...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 223 min read
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Life is a Rollercoaster, Not a Merry-Go-Round
The World's Tallest Rollercoaster. Watch the full video! I posted a video with this blog. This is a video of people riding the tallest...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 104 min read
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My Son Got Married
Our Son got married this past Saturday morning. He and his fiance' decided very quickly that they were going to go ahead and get married....
Crystal McDaniel
Jan 203 min read
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Epiphany
Today is Epiphany. Epiphany comes at the end of the 12 days of Christmas, and celebrates the visit of The Three Wise Men, who gave gifts...
Crystal McDaniel
Jan 54 min read
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Happy New Year...Is Anything Going to Change?
It is New Year's Eve 2024. The last day of the year that has passed. Every single day seemed a struggle. People are talking now about...
Crystal McDaniel
Dec 31, 20243 min read
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Surviving Christmas
Today is December 27, 2024, two days after Christmas. Nelson and I survived. All the plans and festivities that led up to Christmas are...
Crystal McDaniel
Dec 27, 20243 min read
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The Holidays Are Coming
I took a big pause in writing to give myself a break from overthinking about our entire estrangement situation. During that break, I was...
Crystal McDaniel
Nov 26, 20244 min read
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Where Do We Go From Here?
I honestly do not know where we go from here. I do not think Nelson knows either. I really don't think that anyone knows. Right now we...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 28, 20243 min read
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It Has Been A Little While
It has been a little while since I sat down to write this blog. I took some time away. I needed a little space from the estrangement...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 27, 20243 min read
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I Am Not Alone, (And Neither Are You)
I have not posted a blog in a few days. I refrained on purpose, there has been so much happening. Hurricane Helene devastated the area...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 8, 20243 min read
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Rainy Days and Mondays
This is the only day we have to enjoy. In the midst of this day, I have many concerns. Hurricane Helene hit, and so many people are...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 30, 20243 min read
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