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Nelson and Crystal McDaniel have been married for 23 years and face the challenge of being estranged from their daughter Rachel after a strained conversation that Crystal had with her in September of 2023. This event has propelled them on a spiritual journey of walking closer to God, leaning on their faith in Jesus, and using therapeutic tools to heal and grow. Despite the challenges they face, Nelson and Crystal remain committed to their family and their faith.


Navigating Estrangement, Invisible Disabilities, and Service Dog Discrimination — With Humor and a Whole Lot of Dogs
Crystal's Left Broken Leg. The sock was because it was December, and my toes stayed cold! Estrangement with your adult child changes you...
Crystal McDaniel
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Estranged… But Still Petting Dogs: The ADA Paws Pass Chronicles"From Panic to Purpose at the Mrs. Tennessee America Pageant
The Front of the T-Shirts for ADA Paws Pass by Crystal You know those moments where everything’s going great, and then, out of nowhere,...
Crystal McDaniel
3 days ago5 min read
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Crowned Moments, Canines, and the Curious Case of the Traffic Ticket: Life, Estrangement, and a Pageant Weekend to Remember
Me Backstage at the Mrs. Tennessee America Pageant. I will not let estrangement stop me from being my best self! Well, folks… I did it!...
Crystal McDaniel
May 24 min read
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Rising Through Estrangement: Competing With a Broken Heart
Estrangement and Rising Anyway I’m preparing to compete for the title of Mrs. Tennessee America this Saturday , and while the crown...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 233 min read
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Is Estrangement the New Freedom for Adult Children? (Or is it the New Exile and Form of Grief for the Parents)?
Causes of Estrangement There is a, " New Silent Epidemic ," going on in our culture today. It is called Estrangement . In our case, it...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 176 min read
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"These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things"...(During Estrangement With Our Adult Daughter)
Big and Me Estrangement with our adult daughter is draining. Nelson and I have to do a lot to refill our mental, emotional, and physical...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 147 min read
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I Choose Jesus...And I Choose Me! (Even During an Estrangement)
Crystal McDaniel, Mrs. Chattanooga America (photo credit: Holte Avery I have written before that I am competing for the title of Mrs....
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 83 min read
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Stop, Drop, and Grow: Holy Ground in the Middle of Heartache and Estrangment
Psalm 34:18 (ESV): "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit." Stop, Drop, and Grow: Holy Ground in the...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 55 min read
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Letting Go and Finding Peace And Forgiveness During Estrangement
Parenting comes with many unexpected challenges, but nothing quite prepares you for the pain of estrangement from your own child....
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 23 min read
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Coping with Estrangement: Healing from Unrecognized Grief
I never imagined I would find myself here—mourning the living. Estrangement is a grief unlike any other, a silent ache that the world...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 13 min read
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Understanding Adult Child Estrangement: Seeing Their Perspective Through Research And Insight.
Learn why it happens and how to navigate it with empathy.
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 312 min read
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I Received Some Good News...(From A Friend)
Over the weekend, I received some good news from a very close friend. He and his wife were also going through an estrangement with their...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 304 min read
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Today Is A Special Day
30 years ago, today, I gave birth to my twin daughters. All of my pregnancies were very difficult. My first child, my son, died. He...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 263 min read
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More Than Survive
For so long, Nelson and I lived in survival mode. We did not nurture ourselves at all. We were just trying to keep our heads above...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 245 min read
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This Week Is A Tough Week
This week Is rough. There were several things that have happened that were overwhelming. I have several panic attacks, and a seizure. ...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 204 min read
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Good Things Still Happen
This past weekend, I took students to the NATS Mid-Atlantic Region Student Auditions. It was a great event. I had one student to win...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 103 min read
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Memories and Doubts
Nelson and I have healed a lot since this whole estrangement began with our adult daughter. We have begun to laugh again, and have...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 44 min read
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This Too Shall Pass, Nothing is Permanent
I am glad that everything we go through in life is temporal. Nothing lasts, except for our faith in God and His word. No matter what I...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 274 min read
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And There is MORE!!
It has been quite a week. Last weekend, I had a student involved with the NC National Association of Teachers of Singing Student...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 223 min read
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Life is a Rollercoaster, Not a Merry-Go-Round
The World's Tallest Rollercoaster. Watch the full video! I posted a video with this blog. This is a video of people riding the tallest...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 104 min read
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