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Nelson and Crystal McDaniel have been married for 23 years and face the challenge of being estranged from their daughter Rachel after a strained conversation that Crystal had with her in September of 2023. This event has propelled them on a spiritual journey of walking closer to God, leaning on their faith in Jesus, and using therapeutic tools to heal and grow. Despite the challenges they face, Nelson and Crystal remain committed to their family and their faith.


“Even when my heart is in pieces, I will lift my hands and whisper a broken hallelujah. Because God is still worthy.”
t has almost been two years since I’ve spoken to my estranged adult daughter. Just typing that sentence brings a lump to my throat. It’s...
Crystal McDaniel
Aug 63 min read


Estrangement and the Pit of Despair: Climbing Out One Step at a Time
The Pit of Despair, from the Movie, "The Princess Bride." The beginning of the description of what is going to happen to Wesley, in the...
Crystal McDaniel
Jul 193 min read


Estrangement and the Heart’s Tug-of-War: How to Feel Without Falling Apart
Two People Pull a rope in the opposite direction. A Tug-O-War Being estranged from my adult child has created a pain unlike anything...
Crystal McDaniel
Jul 105 min read


Dragged Through Hell by Estrangement: Finding Strength in Every Scar
Person with a scar on their back Dragged Through Hell by Estrangement: Finding Strength in Every Scar I never imagined that one day I...
Crystal McDaniel
Jul 43 min read


Solo Stages: Finding My Voice and My Independence Through Estrangement and Travel
This is an image of stale bread, and it represent estrangement and staying in the past. The Power of Distance I boarded the plane to...
Crystal McDaniel
Jul 36 min read


Estrangement and the Stage: Healing One Song at a Time in Italy
My group of singer friends after our first show There’s something about standing on a stage in a foreign land, singing your heart out,...
Crystal McDaniel
Jun 304 min read


Estrangement and Resilience: When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Go to ItalyBlog Post:
Estrangement is a word that carries so much weight, yet often floats around in whispers. For many of us, it’s a quiet grief we carry in...
Crystal McDaniel
Jun 183 min read


5 Powerful Lessons I’ve Learned Through Estrangement With My Adult Daughter
Estrangement from an adult child is a quiet kind of heartbreak. It doesn’t make headlines. It doesn’t show up in the family photo...
Crystal McDaniel
Jun 164 min read


🕊️ What Estrangement Feels Like: It’s Not Just "Empty Nest"
Empty bird's nest with a "Vacant" note, symbolizing an open house in nature. I think people try to relate by comparing estrangement to...
Crystal McDaniel
Jun 114 min read


Estrangement & the Question We’re Afraid to Ask: Is It OK Not to Like My Estranged Daughter?
This is image is the perfect description of what I go through during this estrangement. By Crystal McDaniel | Strangely Estranged ...
Crystal McDaniel
May 224 min read


🛣️ Estrangement: The Two-Way Street Where Someone Always Thinks They Have the Right of Way
Estrangement...My Car is moving forward into an unknown area. 🚗 When You’re the Mom in the Passenger Seat of Estrangement I never...
Crystal McDaniel
May 193 min read


Surviving Estrangement, Seizures, and Starting a Dog Fashion Empire (in Jeans That Fit and a Sunflower Shirt)
Estrangement will never stop a really cute T-Shirt with a Sunflower Let’s be honest: estrangement isn’t just a word—it’s a season.A...
Crystal McDaniel
May 163 min read


"These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things"...(During Estrangement With Our Adult Daughter)
Big and Me Estrangement with our adult daughter is draining. Nelson and I have to do a lot to refill our mental, emotional, and physical...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 147 min read


I Received Some Good News...(From A Friend)
Over the weekend, I received some good news from a very close friend. He and his wife were also going through an estrangement with their...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 304 min read


Today Is A Special Day
30 years ago, today, I gave birth to my twin daughters. All of my pregnancies were very difficult. My first child, my son, died. He...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 263 min read


More Than Survive
For so long, Nelson and I lived in survival mode. We did not nurture ourselves at all. We were just trying to keep our heads above...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 245 min read


This Week Is A Tough Week
This week Is rough. There were several things that have happened that were overwhelming. I have several panic attacks, and a seizure. ...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 204 min read


Good Things Still Happen
This past weekend, I took students to the NATS Mid-Atlantic Region Student Auditions. It was a great event. I had one student to win...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 103 min read


Memories and Doubts
Nelson and I have healed a lot since this whole estrangement began with our adult daughter. We have begun to laugh again, and have...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 44 min read


This Too Shall Pass, Nothing is Permanent
I am glad that everything we go through in life is temporal. Nothing lasts, except for our faith in God and His word. No matter what I...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 274 min read
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