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Nelson and Crystal McDaniel have been married for 25 years and face the challenge of being estranged from their daughter Rachel after a strained conversation that Crystal had with her in September of 2023. This event has propelled them on a spiritual journey of walking closer to God, leaning on their faith in Jesus, and using therapeutic tools to heal and grow. Despite the challenges they face, Nelson and Crystal remain committed to their family and their faith.


🕊️ What Estrangement Feels Like: It’s Not Just "Empty Nest"
Empty bird's nest with a "Vacant" note, symbolizing an open house in nature. I think people try to relate by comparing estrangement to...
Crystal McDaniel
Jun 11, 20254 min read


Rising Through Estrangement: Competing With a Broken Heart
Estrangement and Rising Anyway I’m preparing to compete for the title of Mrs. Tennessee America this Saturday , and while the crown...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 23, 20253 min read


"These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things"...(During Estrangement With Our Adult Daughter)
Big and Me Estrangement with our adult daughter is draining. Nelson and I have to do a lot to refill our mental, emotional, and physical...
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 14, 20257 min read


I Choose Jesus...And I Choose Me! (Even During an Estrangement)
Crystal McDaniel, Mrs. Chattanooga America (photo credit: Holte Avery I have written before that I am competing for the title of Mrs....
Crystal McDaniel
Apr 8, 20253 min read


I Received Some Good News...(From A Friend)
Over the weekend, I received some good news from a very close friend. He and his wife were also going through an estrangement with their...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 30, 20254 min read


Today Is A Special Day
30 years ago, today, I gave birth to my twin daughters. All of my pregnancies were very difficult. My first child, my son, died. He...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 26, 20253 min read


More Than Survive
For so long, Nelson and I lived in survival mode. We did not nurture ourselves at all. We were just trying to keep our heads above...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 24, 20255 min read


Good Things Still Happen
This past weekend, I took students to the NATS Mid-Atlantic Region Student Auditions. It was a great event. I had one student to win...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 10, 20253 min read


This Too Shall Pass, Nothing is Permanent
I am glad that everything we go through in life is temporal. Nothing lasts, except for our faith in God and His word. No matter what I...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 27, 20254 min read


Happy New Year...Is Anything Going to Change?
It is New Year's Eve 2024. The last day of the year that has passed. Every single day seemed a struggle. People are talking now about...
Crystal McDaniel
Dec 31, 20243 min read


It Has Been A Little While
It has been a little while since I sat down to write this blog. I took some time away. I needed a little space from the estrangement...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 27, 20243 min read


Heads Up, Eyes Forward
Estrangement from my adult child causes me to look at the past a whole lot. It has taken the better part of an entire year for me to...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 26, 20243 min read


Resiliency...You Have to Have It!
Oxford Dictionary Defines Resiliency as, "The Capacity to withstand or recover quickly from difficulties." I can say with absolute...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 10, 20243 min read


Busy, Happy, Productive, and Positive
I started a new journey today. I have found myself having the new title of Mrs. Chattanooga America. Big Drum Roll...I will be...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 9, 20243 min read
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