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Nelson and Crystal McDaniel have been married for 23 years and face the challenge of being estranged from their daughter Rachel after a strained conversation that Crystal had with her in September of 2023. This event has propelled them on a spiritual journey of walking closer to God, leaning on their faith in Jesus, and using therapeutic tools to heal and grow. Despite the challenges they face, Nelson and Crystal remain committed to their family and their faith.


More Than Survive
For so long, Nelson and I lived in survival mode. We did not nurture ourselves at all. We were just trying to keep our heads above...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 245 min read
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This Week Is A Tough Week
This week Is rough. There were several things that have happened that were overwhelming. I have several panic attacks, and a seizure. ...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 204 min read
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Good Things Still Happen
This past weekend, I took students to the NATS Mid-Atlantic Region Student Auditions. It was a great event. I had one student to win...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 103 min read
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Memories and Doubts
Nelson and I have healed a lot since this whole estrangement began with our adult daughter. We have begun to laugh again, and have...
Crystal McDaniel
Mar 44 min read
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This Too Shall Pass, Nothing is Permanent
I am glad that everything we go through in life is temporal. Nothing lasts, except for our faith in God and His word. No matter what I...
Crystal McDaniel
Feb 274 min read
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Where Do We Go From Here?
I honestly do not know where we go from here. I do not think Nelson knows either. I really don't think that anyone knows. Right now we...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 28, 20243 min read
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It Has Been A Little While
It has been a little while since I sat down to write this blog. I took some time away. I needed a little space from the estrangement...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 27, 20243 min read
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I Am Not Alone, (And Neither Are You)
I have not posted a blog in a few days. I refrained on purpose, there has been so much happening. Hurricane Helene devastated the area...
Crystal McDaniel
Oct 8, 20243 min read
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Rainy Days and Mondays
This is the only day we have to enjoy. In the midst of this day, I have many concerns. Hurricane Helene hit, and so many people are...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 30, 20243 min read
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Heads Up, Eyes Forward
Estrangement from my adult child causes me to look at the past a whole lot. It has taken the better part of an entire year for me to...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 26, 20243 min read
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Block It!
I am writing from my work desk, where I assist Nelson with his job. He is a US Health Advisor, and deals with health insurance. I...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 24, 20242 min read
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Soon
Soon. I looked up the definition of the word soon. I decided not to include the whole definition. It means, promptly, or shortly. ...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 18, 20243 min read
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Pray For Me...
As you may have read, last week's family therapy session was very difficult on me. Nelson and I can see that it is helping. We are...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 17, 20243 min read
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We Are Going Turtle Slow...But, We Are Moving in the Right Direction
Most every Sunday, Nelson, my adult son, and I go to church together. Afterwards, we either go out to eat, or we come back to our house...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 15, 20243 min read
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Wait Patiently...
Lately I have been given a plethora of opportunities to be patient. Patience is difficult. I want solutions now. I want the...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 14, 20243 min read
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Light in the Darkness
One day can be very different from the next day, or the day before. I never live the same day twice. One day can be very peaceful, and...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 11, 20242 min read
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Resiliency...You Have to Have It!
Oxford Dictionary Defines Resiliency as, "The Capacity to withstand or recover quickly from difficulties." I can say with absolute...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 10, 20243 min read
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Busy, Happy, Productive, and Positive
I started a new journey today. I have found myself having the new title of Mrs. Chattanooga America. Big Drum Roll...I will be...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 9, 20243 min read
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Sometimes I Just Don't Get It...
Today, I had my individual therapy that is outside of our weekly family therapy. Yes, I have two different therapy appointments per week....
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 7, 20244 min read
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Family Therapy: Not for the Faint of Heart
Today is Wednesday, and that makes it Family Therapy Day. Every Wednesday, at 9 a.m. the four of us, (though I pray one day it will be...
Crystal McDaniel
Sep 4, 20244 min read
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